You were sold a lie
Your parents, teachers, and role models likely said things like “do what you love and the rest will fall into place” or “find your passion and pursue it relentlessly.” This advice is not helpful.
Fixed mindset much?
The problem with following your passion is that it assumes that everyone has a singular and fixed passion that they should pursue. However, research shows that our interests and passions can change over time, and that it’s okay to have multiple passions. It’s also important to note that our interests are often influenced by societal expectations and stereotypes.
People may exploit your passion
Another drawback of following your passion is that it can make you vulnerable to exploitation. When you’re passionate about something, you may be more willing to put up with poor working conditions or to work extra hours without pay. This can lead to burnout and a sense of disillusionment with the field you once loved.
Growth mindset is worth exploring
Consider looking at your strengths and values instead. What are you good at, and what kind of work aligns with your values and goals? This can help you find a fulfilling career that you are good at and that provides a sense of purpose.
Here are five open-ended questions to reflect on as you consider your career path:
- What are my strengths and weaknesses, and how can I use them to find fulfilling work?
- What kind of impact do I want to make in my career?
- What kind of work environment do I thrive in?
- What are the societal expectations and stereotypes that have influenced my interests and passions?
- How have my interests and passions changed over time, and what does that tell me about my career path?